Divorce Can Be Different, and Solace University Teaches You How

Divorce Education

Enjoy FREE videos to help you shift how you are moving through your divorce and co-parenting experience by infusing mindfulness, intentionality, empowerment, and love into your journey.

You will also find the link to access the "Divorce with Love" Master Class which offers 3hours 39minutes of sharing everything you need to know about the legal process and emotional process of divorce.

A New Way to See, Feel, and Experience Divorce

Transforming Divorce Through Mindfulness, Intention, and Love

Welcome to Jen Mitchell Love sharing her wisdom gained from 19 years as a family law attorney, mediator and coach to lift the veil of fear and confusion that surrounds divorce. The drawn out court battles extending years with escalating legal fees, the destruction, the disempowerment, and the harm to children and families of the old way of divorce is over.

Here, you will discover that you and your spouse are the best authorities to determine the most fair and equitable manner to resolve all financial issues and the parenting agreements that are in the best interest of your children. No longer do you need to spend tens of thousands of dollars or years fighting in court. Instead, you can take back control of your journey, armed with clarity, confidence, and the knowledge to make decisions that honor your family and your future.

The resources gathered on this page will help you shift how you think about and experience divorce, guiding you out of destruction and into acceptance, healing, and growth. This is your invitation to reimagine what is possible for you, to release fear, embrace empowerment, and step into a new chapter of your life with freedom, peace, and love.

Removing Shame & Failure From Divorce

This video is a loving reminder that your divorce is part of your soul contract, a divinely guided transition meant to realign you with your truth and highest path.

Here, I help you gently release shame, judgment, and the belief that divorce equals failure. Instead, we anchor into love, gratitude, and the magic of reinvention. You are stepping into a new chapter, and it is filled with expansion, empowerment, and purpose.

Mediation vs. Litigation: Understanding Both Paths So You Can Choose With Clarity

Mediation and litigation are the two most common ways to get a divorce, and while they share some similarities, they create very different experiences for you, your finances, your emotions, and your children. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love breaks down both processes so you can clearly understand what they have in common and where they diverge.

Whether you are deciding which route is best or simply trying to better understand your options, this video gives you the clarity and confidence you need to make an aligned, empowered choice for your family and your future.

Four Ways to Get a Divorce

There are four primary ways to get a divorce: litigation, mediation, do-it-yourself, and collaborative law. In this video, I break down each option so you understand the process, the cost, the emotional impact, and the level of support involved.

My intention is to help you gain clarity, reduce overwhelm, and choose the path that aligns with your values, your family, and your desired experience. Divorce doesn’t have to be chaotic or destructive — with the right knowledge, you can move forward confidently and peacefully.

How to Talk to Your Spouse About Divorce

Talking to your spouse about divorce is one of the most difficult conversations you may ever have, and you do not have to approach it with fear or confusion.

In this video, I guide you through how to prepare, what to say, how to stay grounded, and how to create a calm, respectful environment for this sensitive discussion. You will learn how to express your inner knowing, maintain compassion, and create a supportive foundation for the next phase of your relationship, whether that path leads to healing, release, or a new form of family.

How to Share About Your Divorce With Others

How you talk about your divorce shapes your experience and impacts the energies surrounding your children and forever co-parent. In this video, I share the three main points you can focus on to maintain a high energetic vibration when you share about your divorce with others in a mindful and grounded way. When you communicate from a high vibrational place, you stay in your power and your energy remains your own.

Is Divorce the Best Path Forward For You?

Deciding whether to divorce is one of the most vulnerable and life-shifting crossroads you may ever face. This video offers calm, guided support to help you explore your feelings, your fears, and your intuitive knowing. In this video, I help you connect with your intuition, your energy, and your inner guidance so you can understand what your marriage is teaching you and what your next aligned step may be. You will learn how to tune into your needs, understand the dynamics in your relationship, and explore what is asking to shift, heal, or be released.This is a sacred moment of awakening, and you do not have to navigate it alone.

What You Need To Do To Get a Divorce

Getting a divorce can feel overwhelming, but it becomes much easier when you understand the steps.

In this video, Jen Mitchell Love walks you through exactly what you need to do to start and complete the divorce process with clarity and confidence.

What is the Main Reason People Get Divorced?

We often blame divorce on circumstances — finances, communication issues, disconnection, infidelity, stress, or growing apart. But beneath all of the surface-level reasons, there is one deeper truth that sits at the core of every divorce.

In this video, I share the real and only reason divorce happens from both a practical and a higher-consciousness perspective. We explore how relationships operate as soul contracts, how partners evolve at different energetic rates, and how misalignment — not failure — is what ultimately creates the need for a new relationship container.

Your Spouse Asked for a Divorce...

Here’s How to Handle It with Strength & Clarity

Hearing your partner say they want a divorce, when you do not, is one of the most painful and disorienting moments a person can experience. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love guides you through what to do next so you can move out of panic, fear, and overwhelm, and into clarity, stability, and emotional safety. You will explore how to respond in the moment, how to communicate without begging or shutting down, and how to stay grounded even as your world feels like it is turning upside down. You will also learn how to anchor into your intuition, protect your energy, and understand what this moment is trying to show you, emotionally and spiritually.

What to Think About When Creating the Terms of Your Financial Agreement

Finances hold energy, and the way you structure your financial agreement sets the tone for your next life chapter. In this video, I teach you how to create a financial settlement rooted in clarity, alignment, and the highest good for everyone involved.

Jen Mitchell Love walks you through the "three buckets" of a financial agreement and explores how to make choices that support your stability, your healing, and the Dream Life you are co-creating. This does not have to be overwhelming, with the right guidance, it becomes a powerful act of stepping into your truth.

Understanding the Cost of Divorce: What You Really Need to Know

The Shift From the 3rd to the 5th Dimension is Happening Now

The shift from the 3rd to the 5th dimension is one of the most profound transitions happening on the planet, individually and collectively. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love explains what this shift really means, how it impacts your relationships, emotions, and daily life, and how to recognize the signs that you are rising into 5D consciousness. This is a journey of awakening: moving from fear, limitation, and ego-based patterns into love, intuition, clarity, and energetic alignment. If you have felt called to step into your highest self, this is your invitation.

Conscious Co-Parenting and Empowered Children

This section is here to support you in your parenting and co-parenting journey with clarity, mindfulness, and love. These videos help you shift the way you navigate communication, conflict, and transitions so you can stay grounded and focused on what matters most to you... raising empowered, emotionally strong children who feel safe, supported, and deeply loved. Each teaching guides you toward a more peaceful, intentional co-parenting relationship that honors your kids and strengthens your co-parenting relationship and family in its new form.

Creating the Terms of Your Parenting Agreement

This video helps you create a Parenting Agreement rooted in love, stability, and the highest good of your children. Jen Mitchell Love walks you through the key components, energetic considerations, and mindful choices that bring clarity and harmony to your co-parenting relationship. When you approach this process intentionally, your parenting plan becomes a powerful tool: a blueprint that supports your children’s emotional well-being and allows both parents to thrive in this next chapter.

Let’s build your new family structure in a way that aligns with your truth, your values, and your highest self.

Parenting Time Reimagined: How to See It as Positive for You and Your Children

Parenting time can feel emotional, heavy, or even painful when you are going through a divorce or separation, but when you shift the way you look at it, everything changes. In this video, I guide you through how to see parenting time as a good and supportive part of your child’s life, rather than something being taken from you or divided. We explore how to reframe parenting time from fear to love, from loss to opportunity, and from resistance to balance. You will learn how this perspective shift strengthens your children, supports your co-parenting relationship, and brings more peace, acceptance, and emotional freedom into your life. When you view parenting time through a higher, more conscious lens, you create a healthier family structure, one where both parents can show up fully, and your children feel safe, supported, and deeply loved in both homes.

Talking to Your Children About Divorce

This video offers a heart-centered approach to talking to your children about divorce with love, clarity, and emotional presence. Jen Mitchell Love shares how to guide your children through this transition in a way that honors their feelings and keeps them anchored in safety, connection, and love. You will learn how to communicate truthfully without fear, hold space for their emotions, and remind them that you are always a family.

How to Support & Empower Your Kids Through Divorce

Divorce impacts children deeply, but with the right guidance, it can become a powerful opportunity to strengthen them, not break them. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love shares how to navigate divorce with children in a grounded, loving, and conscious way, so they feel safe, supported, and emotionally empowered throughout the transition. Your children can come out of this experience stronger, more emotionally aware, and deeply loved, and this video shows you how to guide them there with intention, presence, and heart.

What You Need to Know About Your Parenting Agreement

Your parenting agreement is the foundation of your new family structure, and understanding it is essential for creating a calm, predictable, and supportive environment for your children. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love walks you through the core components of a Parenting Agreement, what each section means, and how to approach the process with clarity and confidence. You will learn what is included in the Agreement, set healthy expectations, and create a parenting plan that truly reflects your values and supports your family’s future. This video gives you the information, insight, and peace of mind you need to build a child-centered agreement that empowers both parents and honors the needs of your children as you move forward in this new chapter.

How to Navigate Your

Co-Parent’s New Partner With Grace, Strength & Peace

Learning that your co-parent has a new significant other can trigger a mix of emotions, grief, fear, comparison, anger, jealousy, or even a sense of displacement. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love guides you through how to navigate those feelings and step into a grounded, empowered, and peaceful space as you adjust to this new dynamic.

When you look at your co-parent’s new significant other through a conscious, heart-centered perspective, everything changes. You reclaim your power. You honor your healing. And you create a calmer, more stable environment for your children and yourself. This video helps you shift out of fear and into acceptance, emotional sovereignty, and inner peace — no matter what changes around you.

How to Shift Out of Difficult Co-Parenting and Into a Space of Peace

A difficult co-parenting relationship drains your energy, destabilizes your home, and keeps you stuck in emotional patterns that feel heavy and unmanageable. You can shift out of that space. In this video, Jen Mitchell Love guides you through how to move from conflict, tension, or emotional chaos into a grounded, peaceful, and empowered co-parenting dynamic. Your co-parenting relationship does not have to stay difficult. With intention, awareness, and aligned choices, you can create a supportive environment that honors your children, protects your emotional well-being, and allows you to move forward in a higher, more peaceful vibration.

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The Divorce with Love Master Class

Your Complete, Heart-Centered Guide Through the Legal & Emotional Divorce Journey

If you are ready for the full narrative, the complete roadmap that will walk you step-by-step through everything you need to know about both the legal and emotional processes of divorce, this is where your journey begins.

The Divorce with Love Master Class is a 3 hour and 39 minute transformational deep dive designed to remove the fear, confusion, and overwhelm that so many people feel during divorce. Instead of chaos, you will receive clarity. Instead of destruction, you will find empowerment. Instead of feeling lost, you will learn how to navigate this season of your life with mindfulness, intention, and love.

This master class brings together Jen Mitchell Love's 19 years of experience as a Family Law Attorney, Mediator, and Holistic Coach, along with the high-vibrational Solace approach that has guided hundreds of people into more peaceful, empowered, and heart-centered divorces.

Inside this class, you will learn:

Exactly how the legal process works, what to expect, what matters most, and what you do not need to waste energy on.

How to protect your emotional well-being and prevent the divorce from taking over your life.

How to shift out of fear and scarcity and into a grounded, empowered, conscious space.

Why conflict escalates, and how to stop it before it begins.

How to communicate with your co-parent in a way that protects your peace and puts your children first.

How to release shame, guilt, and societal programming around divorce.

How to use this transition as a catalyst to step into your highest and greatest expression of self.

Whether you are preparing for divorce, in the middle of it, or trying to understand what’s ahead, the Divorce with Love Master Class gives you the complete picture, the emotional, the legal, the spiritual, and the practical.

If you want true clarity, if you want to understand your divorce from a grounded and empowered space, if you want loving guidance through every step of this process, this is the class you want to watch.

Your divorce does not have to destroy you.
It can grow you.
Strengthen you.
Awaken you.

Begin your empowered journey now inside the Divorce with Love Master Class.

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The Solace Divorce Mediation Experience

At Solace Divorce Mediation, we serve divorcing couples from all over the country who are ready to shift away from conflict and step into a mindful, intentional, and loving divorce journey.

Whether you are navigating emotional overwhelm, legal uncertainty, communication struggles, or the desire to protect your children from unnecessary stress, Solace guides you through each step with clarity, compassion, and heart.

The Solace approach honors both the practical and the energetic layers of divorce. We help you understand the legal process in simple, empowering language while also supporting your emotional and spiritual well-being. Through this new way of divorcing, you release the old patterns of fear and enter a space of respect, truth, and conscious co-creation—allowing you to transition your relationship into its next chapter with dignity, strength, and love.

If you are ready to experience divorce differently, and to transform this moment into a pathway of growth and empowerment, we would be honored to support and guide you.

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